At Nixler, we aspire to provide Users with recommendations and suggestions for matchmaking which could be most compatible based on the information provided by the User. However, the choices and decisions in the context always rest with the User. Nixler is a space to make connections in inclusive, respectful and kind ways. In order to foster healthy and equitable relationships, we hold our members accountable for the way they treat each other.
Our Community Guidelines help keep our members safe. They make it clear what content and conduct is not acceptable (on our platform and off).
User's judgment, choices, decisions and instincts are necessary at all times and can not override the recommendations we make in good faith. We highly emphasize on the fact that there is no substitute for acting with caution and best judgement. Some guidelines for assisting with the User's interaction with probable matches through the Site are given below:
Nixler monitors User account activity and investigates all complaints, however, verifying criminal background of each account is not possible for Nixler. Users' should bear in mind it is always possible for people to misrepresent themselves. Some basic verification of information provided on the Site is conducted by Nixler through engaging third party experts. Such verification is warranted only to the extent and quality, these third parties offer. However, assessing a match's authenticity and genuine interest in a lasting relationship is ultimately the User's responsibility. Users' are urged not to ignore any facts or feelings that seem inconsistent or "do not feel right". User has to trust one's own instincts and remember that User has control over the situation at all times. If during any interaction with any probable match, the User is suspicious, then Nixler recommends it would be best for User to end such interactions. If during a personal interaction classified as a meeting for getting to know each other, the User is uncomfortable, then the best option would be to leave and discontinue future interaction.
We recommend the User should be aware of some of the below mentioned indications when getting to know someone new:
The Site offers a secure messaging service; Please be careful if anyone who you meet through Nixler immediately requests to talk or chat on an outside email.
Please be very careful and vigilant about people you claim to be of certain location and all the time seem to be traveling and does not have any chances of being in a city as yours reducing chances of meeting of you feel ready for it;
Please do not believe any stories for need of money particularly someone who asks for money, goods or anything similar, whether or not you have met such a person;
Please be careful of people who ask you to support or engage in any manner with personal transactions.
Please verify, if someone indicates a sudden personal crisis and pressures you to provide any kind of assistance particularly financial;
Please be careful in interacting, if someone asks inappropriate questions. These could be anything which make you uncomfortable;
Please share your work or home address only when you’re ready for it and not under any pressure.
Any sort of inconsistency in what anyone says; any sort of vagueness in responding to specific questions or avoiding certain questions which feel important to you;
Any person who doesn't feel responsible or right for you or seems to be blaming others all the time;
Please be careful in interacting with someone who insists on getting overly close, very quickly particularly when you do not feel ready for it;
If someone is appearing from time to time on Nixler with different names/ identity or is missing for large periods of time. Please report this by emailing to us on nixler.xyz
When accessing a User account from a public or shared computer, use caution and be aware of your surroundings so that others are not able to view or record your password or other personal information.
We don’t permit nude, sexually explicit, or sexually vulgar profile content. We also don’t allow the commercial exchange of any romantic or sexual activity, content, or services, including attempts to sell, advertise, or buy adult sexual content.
Our community is for creating kind connections. We don’t allow content or behavior that makes any individual or group feel harassed, bullied, or targeted. This includes belittling, insulting, or intimidating behavior; making unsolicited comments about someone’s appearance; engaging in emotional abuse; blackmail; repeated unwanted contact; or wishing, encouraging, or praising acts of violence.
We do not tolerate sexual harassment. We consider sexual harassment to be any non-physical, unwanted, and unwelcome sexual behaviors between members. This includes cyberflashing (i.e. sharing unsolicited sexually explicit images), in-person indecent exposure, sharing or
threatening to share sexual or intimate images without the consent of the person involved or depicted, sending unwanted sexual comments or images, and fetishization.
We strongly encourage Users to be cautious when sharing personal information that could reveal identity. Never include last name, email address, home address, telephone number, place of work or any other identifying information in Internet profile or initial email messages. We urge Users to refer to Our security guidelines and resist the urge to provide a personal email or phone number right away, even if you feel a strong connection. We encourage you to get to know a match well before sharing personal details and only if you feel confident to do so.
Sharing such information immediately, do not support trust in a relationship as most people seeking these for malicious reasons may convey.
We understand that speaking on the phone with a prospective match can be an important step in getting to know each other, however, before you share phone numbers, users should make sure that the need to respect each other's privacy and other important issues have been discussed and agreed upon. If either of the people in the match decide to end communication in the future, agree not to use the phone number of the other as a means to pursue an unwanted relationship. For added security, try using your phone's privacy features when you call, like private number blocking.
Never give credit card number or bank information or any passwords, including email passwords;
Never share information which could reveal your passwords like, mother's maiden name, date of birth etc. or other private information that can be used to access your financial information.
Never send money to someone you meet online or to someone the person requests to, especially by wire transfer.
Immediately stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal or financial information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.
Online communication can sometimes accelerate one's sense of comfort and intimacy and thus, makes it necessary to get to know each other better through other means. Nixler offers a secure anonymous messaging system for use for as long as it is required for getting to know the recommended match.
Even though Nixler's Compatibility Assessment creates extremely compatible matches, it can not replace the need for your own experience. It is vital to meet and get to know each other in a meaningful way. So we recommend allowing time for a variety of experiences to occur.
If any match shares a URL link to a favorite website or article as part of the get-to-know-you communication process User should always use good judgment and be cautious when deciding to click on any URL links. In particular, be aware of links that lead to web pages which look similar or identical to Nixler homepage, including its log-in fields. These links are typically sent as attempts to 'phish' for log-in information from users in order to compromise user accounts. You should report any such phishing attempts to Nixler immediately. The only way to log in to User account with Our Site is through Nixler webpage and by directly accessing Nixler.xyz
Meeting in person can be exciting. It is fun to explore the level of chemistry you share with the match, but always exercise reasonable caution.
Choose the time and place of such a meeting. Meet in a public place at a decent hour during which lots of people will be around. Evening and night arrangements can be avoided for initial meetings;
It could be best to abstain from alcohol consumption in the first few meetings;
Using one's own transportation for the initial meeting would be best. Wherever possible, try not to share place of residence immediately unless you are absolutely sure and comfortable of doing so;
Always share your plans and when you will return with a friend or a family member. Also, try to leave the address behind the place where you are going to meet. If the choice of place is not made by you, it would be good idea to check the same in advance a day or two before;
Carry a fully charged mobile phone with easily accessible emergency numbers.
Users should always be respectful and treat matches as the User would want them to treat the User. Not every match is going to be right for you so closing communication with matches and having matches close communication with you is a natural and healthy part of the process. User still needs to carefully consider whether this particular person is the one with whom User would like to further a relationship. If User feels the need to end communication, then be honest, direct and polite. The sooner User addresses this determination, the better.
If a recommended match feels the need to close communication with User, please respect their wishes. If User still persists, then Nixler could be constrained to take adequate steps to prevent such User to receive such Services.
Nixler works diligently to close Users who misrepresent to other Users on our Site, and member complaints are taken, seriously. If User has concerns about a particular match, please do not hesitate to contact us so that appropriate steps can be taken to keep Nixler safe. Email your concerns to: nixler.xyz
If We close an account for suspect activity, inappropriate behaviour or falsified identity, User may be notified via email to discontinue communicating with the match in question. We strongly encourage all of our members to review emails received from Nixler to ensure this communication is received promptly.
We hope these guidelines will help to make the User experience a success.